The Clitoris & Penetrative Orgasm

Now, let’s talk about the clitoris…

During penetrative vaginal sex there is generally not enough stimulation to orgasm. 
There is research that suggests most women cannot orgasm at all during penetration. This is a myth. If you would like to be able to orgasm in this position, here is some advice.
In order to understand why this is so, we have to understand where the clitoris is located. 
First and foremost, getting to know your own body is a must. We suggest you take a mirror and look down there. The tip of the clitoris is north and feels like a hardened shape the size of a pea. Its head is sandwiched between folds of skin above and beneath it. The urethra is below, where urine is excreted and further south is the vaginal opening. 
For best results, we suggest manually stimulating the area with your hand and some coconut oil in the shower prior to being with your husband. This stimulation accelerates your physical desire.
After some time of foreplay, and hopefully achieving orgasm through your partner manually stimulating you, you may begin to have intercourse (face to face). Your partner will get into a woman’s push-up position between your legs and he will be facing you. His knees are bent on the bed and hands on either side of your shoulders for stabilization.

Your legs go around his thighs, the soles of your feet resting on his calves. Bring him into you by way of the back of his knees. While resting the soles of your feet on his calves, pull him towards you, you are creating the vertical friction required for a penetrative orgasm. While your legs are wrapped around him, heels resting on his calves, you’re also using his body and hips to squeeze your thighs against him and ever so slightly elevating your pelvis. We do not suggest using a pillow for this position. With your pelvis slightly elevated, body leveraged around him, your heels on the back of his calves; you can do pelvic floor contractions to enhance the sensation for both of you. Tips for the night of the wedding and something to keep in mind: He will lose his stabilized position with his hands by trying to put himself inside you. To avoid this, use your hand to guide him in by taking hold of his penis. You have an opportunity to manually stimulate him if he’s yet to be fully erect. This will also allow you to control the pace of his entry and minimize pain and discomfort. Remember, don’t forget the coconut oil. A note to the Kallah: You may experience some irritation after your first encounter. This is no reason to avoid intercourse when it's appropriate. Your husband could lay behind you and enter your vagina from the back i.e. "spooning". This could be more comfortable and lead to unexpected pleasure and stimulation of the G-Spot.

Health note: After intercourse, it is advisable to urinate, this will return the vagina back to a healthy pH balance and help prevent urinary tract and yeast infections.