1. What goals do we have in life? For ourselves personally and as a couple?
2. What is the role of religion in our lives? What was its role in our families growing up? What would you keep or like to change?
3. What do you consider sacred? Why?
4. What carries us through difficult times?
5. What is your source of peace?
6. What religious beliefs and practices do we want to pass down to our children? Why?
7. How do you feel about personal development and growth? How do you seek your own growth? Do you define growth as simply physical? 8. Do you feel the need to grow spiritually?
9. What is prayer to you? When do you pray? Is your relationship with Gd a priority?
10. Do you view physical intimacy as a spiritual experience? Explain.
11. Can you think of a time that you were struggling with something? Did you turn to a Rav (or want to) for guidance? 
12. How much or how little formal Jewish education would we want for our children?