Fantasy

Love requires no explanation. It is the most pure and powerful emotion that one can feel. No wonder we fantasize about the one we love. It is because they are the primary object of our affections, so naturally our thoughts turn to them. Could there be something deeper and more complex at play? The power of fantasy can be incredibly powerful and it is our thoughts, ideas, desires and dreams that shape reality. We often take our need for attention and release and use fantasy for emotional gratification. We can envision our perfect relationship, self, and use those fantasy interpretations to stir the emotional connection of love in our minds. This act allows us to temporarily feel the presence of the one we adore and because we are innately creative, we can craft, create and design our perfect scenarios. Fantasy also allows us to explore concepts which can sometimes be too much for reality. They allow us to envision scenarios that make us feel complete and fulfilled. We can grow our understanding with different possibilities without repercussions and travel a world of limitless possibilities. It cannot be denied that exploring the depths of an emotion can be something both exhilarating but also intimidating. Fantasy moves us away from reality and allows us to feel the bliss brought about by love and safety without the fear of rejection. Plan date nights. Take time planning date nights for each other. This shows that you value your partner's needs and can help keep intimacy alive. Imagine creative adventures that you can do together to keep things romantic. This could be dinner out once a week, watching your favorite show together or setting aside time to just reconnect in different ways. Visualize different scenarios and take actionable steps to spice things up. Get into a comfortable position and close your eyes.

Reach back into your memory. Think about when you and your partner first met and were in the infatuation stage. Revisit the earliest moments of excitement and feel your heartbeat, your hands shake, the spark. Let yourself lose track of time. Remember how good you felt about yourself, how vulnerable and secure you were able to be. Feel that. Then go into the bedroom!
This will certainly help you look forward to being together with your partner.Your bedroom needs to be a private retreat for you and your partner. Make your bedroom aesthetically pleasing to the senses with things like candles, nice sheets, dark curtains and a pleasant scent.