Sex & Intimacy
Touch is the gateway to seduction. How and where you touch your man can send signals of love and desire straight to his core. Here I will walk you through each zone of the body and give some suggestions for seduction.
Upper Zone… Head, Neck, Shoulders, Chest
Touch his hair lightly, engaging the nerve endings in his scalp. Move to his ears with a very light massage. Do not stick your tongue in his ear. Run your fingernails through the back of his hair and whisper in his ear. Tell him he looks hot and how attractive he is. Men also need compliments. Stroke his lips lightly with your fingertips. The neck holds a lot of daily tension. Touch lightly and massage to release. Make eye contact with him, he may kiss you. Lightly tickle the back of his neck but if he laughs- stop. Kiss his neck below each ear, not too wet of a kiss, light and passionately. Engaging the shoulders with a massage is also a great way to release physical tension, build sexual anticipation, relax him and get him talking. Ask an open ended question so that you can react to the story with light touching and words of affirmation. Men hold a lot of their power in their chest. When you see your man with his shoulders back and chest out, he’s ready to take on anything. Laying your head on his chest makes him feel like your protector. Lightly but firmly touch his chest and stomach, you don't want to tickle him. This will slow the nervous system and bring him into the moment.
Middle Zone… Stomach, lower back, hands and wrists The wrists and hands are little known pleasure zones. Sit side by side and lightly touch his inner wrist, proceed to massage his hand. His stomach and lower back are connected to his pelvis. Massaging his lower back and spine will awaken this zone.You can lightly place your hand on his lower back when walking to signal your attraction. There are tons of nerve endings around the belly button, circle it with varying degrees of pressure (not too hard or lightly). Kissing around the belly button can also be a big turn on when the moment is close at hand.
Lower Zone…Legs, feet Have him lay on his stomach. Start at the bottom of his feet with a gentle massage. Feel free to use the recommended coconut oil. Move up the legs, behind the knees to his inner thighs. Massage up and down the thigh with varying pressure.