Family
IN THIS LESSON
Family is the MOST IMPORTANT thing. Being open, flexible, and trying to truly understand each other's perspective when approaching the topic of family will create genuine understanding. Family means different things to different people and how ever you and your partner decide to define this is up to you. What’s most important is that you talk about what family means and what each of you expects. Discussing your views on children, how many you would like, and when the time is right, is the first step in imagining your ideal family structure. The primary relationship in any family is the couple. Children's needs and demands deserve every bit of attention you can give. This need not be at the expense of your relationship. In a perfect world, the children grow up and leave. If you haven’t maintained intimacy and connection with one another, the relationship will be lacking. The greatest legacy you can leave your children is the example of a loving relationship between parents. It is the foundation they will build on forever.