Your clients will be best served by reading and answering the questions in each of the chapters and sending back their answers prior to sessions. This will facilitate clarity where the couple is not aligned. You will see the benefit of using this framework as it will cut down on useless sidetracking which leads into irrelevant topics and unproductive venting.
This course and workbook are professional teaching tools. Newlyweds repeatedly seek help and counseling during the first years of their marriage. They need guidance on how to live cooperatively and intimacy issues. Unfortunately couples stop talking to each other and suffer in silence for fear of creating an argument. Not knowing how to initiate intimate conversations on their own, they often retreat and avoid one another. Facilitating communication between couples is a skill that needs to be worked. It’s a service that creates the space for exceptional listening to occur in place of silence and avoidance. Reducing anxiety with this method will establish a stabilizing effect on the couple, their children and create a harmonious atmosphere in the home for all.