Sex & Intimacy
1. How often during the day do you think about having sex?
2. How do you prepare? Do you fantasize? Are you open to experimenting?
3. What is your goal for sex? Do you think it is the same for your partner?
4. What turns you on? Are you comfortable asking your partner to meet your needs? Are you embarrassed to ask?
5. How and where do you like to be touched? Do you even know?
6. Do you feel comfortable asking your partner these questions?
7. Do you or your partner have a special way to ask for sex?
8. What happens when one person is too tired or disengaged?
9. How do you deal with this reaction?
10. Have you noticed if you and your partner have a favorite position? Have you discussed this with each other?
11. What is your favorite time to make love? Are you open to spontaneity?
12. How often would you like to have sex? When? Where?
13. Do you ensure you are both satisfied?
14. Is there anything sexually you would like to try? What can we do to make our sex life better? Can you tell me? Can I tell you?
15. Is there a focus during sex on imperfect body image? Are we able to focus on what we do like about ourselves and each other?
16. Do you avoid touching yourself in a personal way? Why?
17. How can we make our bedroom into a place to play?“I’ve been asked so many times; “Why am I not having an orgasm?”Gd knows what he’s talking about… Dim the lights. Forget about your imperfections. See yourself as the woman or man you want to be.”