In this blog we are going to attempt to distinguish the difference between loving another and that love in it’s essence is Gd/oneself.
Sensing the duality of another outside of self is not love.
The fact that you can say I am “me” and you are “you” is a duality. Removing that separation is a matter of free choice. Disempowerment of the thought of duality can only be done by you alone. One needs to remove the concept of “me” and “you”, and replace it with the awareness of “we” and “us”.
Love is derived from Gd. Because the self is Gd, the feeling of love that is created when two beings once separated, reunite is Gd.
Caring, respect, honor, valuing someone or something is not this love that is a part of you.
When you like someone or something, this person or thing is outside of you.
When you love in the figurative sense, someone who gives something to you, you are dependent. It doesn’t mean you love them, you’ve made a transaction of “like” between you.
True love is only for someone who is “me”. When I think of him/her, I think of them as a part of “me”. Not outside “me”, not the concept of “other”.
When you truly love someone there is no “other”. Existentially they are “you”.
If you love someone as part of you, you will never see them as “other”. This is the most powerful feeling that was ever created.
You were once together, and then separated only to find one another again . The foundation of the relationship depends on your ability to realize this. Your partner shares your existence in being. He is not your partner in function he is sharing “being” with you.
The true relationship of lovers is unique. Different from any other love.
We have to reconcile what looks like two different people.
We are a contradiction to each other. Both of us are different in our ability to recognize our self awareness. When we become aware we are not apart, but together.
Joy describes this feeling we attain when we love someone. (at least a first ;)
This is unity, oneness.
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