My experience with couples is that men think less while they're having sex and women are thinking constantly.
Women are unanimously future focused thinkers during sex. Either because they're nervous, excited or wish they could be anywhere else but where they are. Other times, they live in past thinking mode which creates depression, worry and concern over something else entirely.
Men are generally experiencing what's in front of them, the nakedness and hopefully the playfulness… The vibe.
What if you could catch yourself thinking? Bring yourself back into feeling mode and focus on something sensual happening to your body. His breath, smell, touch, all of it. You would definitely calm down and reach an orgasm.
What not to do?
Allow your thoughts to drift off thinking…
“I'm too fat”
“What's he thinking?”
“What's going on for him?”
“Why isn't this working?”
“What am I supposed to do?”
“Who's in charge here?”
“What am I doing here”
“He doesn’t deserve me right now”
And on and on we’ll go…Where we stop nobody knows… It definitely won’t be at an orgasm, I can tell you that.
I work with women and teach them how to be in their bodies during intercourse. I also work with men teaching them to be more adept, comfortable and curious about the female body.
Knowledge is everything here.
A smart woman knows how to let her husband know when he's pleased her. There will be no words, your orgasm will speak for itself.
