Kissing is often associated with expressions of love, passion and intimacy. It’s a gesture that holds deep significance for couples both in and out of the bedroom. Beyond the physical act, kissing enhances and highlights intimacy and overall well being. When couples engage in kissing regularly, for no reason at all, other than to kiss, whether it’s a tender peck on the cheek, or a passionate embrace, they are establishing a profound emotional bond and connection.
Kissing serves as a nonverbal expression that conveys affection, desire and love, the depths of one's feelings. This act helps couples feel valued which creates a strong foundation for their relationship. Moreover, kissing is an essential form of communication in a romantic relationship as well as in other relationships. It allows partners to express emotions and intentions without uttering a word. The kiss on the forehead can convey comfort and reassurance, while a lingering kiss can express passion and longing. Through the art of kissing couples can maintain a strong understanding of each other's needs and desires.
Scientific research has shown that kissing releases a surge of hormones such as dopamine and serotonin which contribute to feelings of pleasure and reduced stress. Additionally, the act of kissing can increase the heart rate and circulation leading to overall well being.
In the context of the bedroom, kissing takes on an even more significant role in enhancing sexual intimacy. It serves as a prelude for further exploration. The heightened arousal can build anticipation and serve as a catalyst for deep, meaningful physical connection. Most couples experience increased feelings of appreciation and contentment as a result.
Some of the physical benefits of kissing:
Reduce stress levels by triggering the release of feel-good hormones.
Bonding and attachment are reinforced along with a sense of closeness and security.
Promotes feelings of trust which are essential for intimacy.
Enhances mood by finding more positivity and uplifting interactions.
Promotes non verbal connection and the ability to understand one another's needs and emotional state to respond with empathy.
Stimulates the sense of being valued, desired and emotionally connected.
We emotionally validate our partners which reinforces a sense of security and trust. This breaks down barriers and fosters vulnerability between partners which creates an intimate space to express and let down our guard.
If for no other reason, It’s Fun!
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Here’s an excerpt...
Let’s talk about what to do:
Build tension for the kiss.
Lean in and pause.
Look into his eyes.
Feel the breath and hold close without touching.
Slightly open your mouth.
Start the kiss slowly, softening your lips, slightly open, without tension.
Don’t go in with your tongue just yet.
Change the pace. This signals variety and increases the urge. When he feels you getting turned on- he gets turned on. Increase the intensity, and pressure with your lips. Tilt your head slowly to either side.
Change the pace again, pulling back slightly. Pausing between kissing and grazing lips will stimulate excitement.
Think to yourself, how do you want to be kissed?
Should I Initiate the kiss?
Can you lean in for the kiss and get close enough so this can happen?
Can you guide him where you want him to kiss you?
